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Sample compatibility score

Adjust pillar toggles to see how overlap changes. Every visual is backed by numeric scores — never color alone.

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Match metrics beyond the pillars

Body size plus visual meters for height (including side-by-side match preview), age, kids and family, and pets — each with a scroll wheel and live SVG preview. Optional filters alongside pillar alignment, not inside it.

Who you are

Scroll the build scale — the figure grows as you move from slim toward plus. This is about you, separate from the six pillars.

Build

Slim
Lean
Athletic / strong
Average
Curvy
Full-figured
Plus
Prefer not to say

Build: Average

Visual match meters

Scroll each meter — same pattern as body scale. SVG today; Seedance scroll videos land on the same scrub index.

Height

Your height band on a real-scale ruler — preview updates as you scroll.

Height meter

5'8" – 5'11" · 5'10"

Height

Under 5'4"
5'4" – 5'7"
5'8" – 5'11"
6'0" – 6'3"
6'4"+
Any height
Prefer not to say

Height: 5'8" – 5'11"

Height together

How two heights look side by side — e.g. 6'4" and 5'2" in proportion.

Match height preview

5'8" – 5'11" + 5'4" – 5'7" · 4" difference

Scroll your height on the left preview, or use the wheel below to set your band.

Your height

Under 5'4"
5'4" – 5'7"
5'8" – 5'11"
6'0" – 6'3"
6'4"+
Any height
Prefer not to say

Your height: 5'8" – 5'11"

Height with heels

Ann preview — scroll heel options to see how flats vs heels change your height on the ruler.

Height with heels

Ann preview · 5'8" – 5'11" + Varies by occasion · 6'0"

Height with heels

Flats / barefoot
Low heel (~2")
Mid heel (~3")
High heel (~4")
Platform / block
I never wear heels
Varies by occasion
Prefer not to say

Height with heels: Varies by occasion

Your age

Age band on a timeline — used with match openness, not judgment.

Age meter

35 – 44

Your age

18 – 24
25 – 34
35 – 44
45 – 54
55 – 64
65+
Prefer not to say

Your age: 35 – 44

Age openness

How wide you're open on age — marker shows the center of your range.

Age meter

Within ±5 years

Age openness

22 – 27
28 – 32
33 – 38
39 – 45
46+
Within ±3 years
Within ±5 years
Open to all

Age openness: Within ±5 years

Kids & family

Timeline, count, adoption, and stepfamily — one visual family meter.

Family meter

Someday (3+ years)

Kids & family

Do not want kids
Unsure
Someday (3+ years)
Within ~2 years
Within ~1 year
Open to adoption
Have 1 child
Have 2 children
Have 3+ children
Open to stepfamily
Already have kids (unspecified)
Prefer not to say

Kids & family: Someday (3+ years)

Pets at home

Dogs, cats, mixed, or allergic — stack grows as pet load increases.

Pets meter

No pets

Pets at home

No pets
Dog(s)
Cat(s)
Dogs & cats
Other pets
Allergic to pets
Prefer not to say

Pets at home: No pets

Sample match preview

Partner demo: 25 – 34 · 5'4" – 5'7" · Do not want kids

Kids: AlignedPets: AlignedHeight: Aligned

Physical & movement

Activity level

Mostly sedentary
Light activity
Moderately active
Active
Very active
Prefer not to say

Activity level: Moderately active

Workout rhythm

No structured workouts
1–2× / week
3–4× / week
5+× / week
Daily training
Prefer not to say

Workout rhythm: 3–4× / week

Substance & diet

Smoking

Never
Socially
Occasionally
Regularly
Trying to quit
Prefer not to say

Smoking: Never

Drinking

Never
Rarely
Socially
Weekly
Most days
Prefer not to say

Drinking: Socially

Cannabis

Never
Rarely
Occasionally
Regularly
Medical use
Prefer not to say

Cannabis: Never

Diet

Omnivore
Flexitarian
Vegetarian
Vegan
Pescatarian
Gluten-free
Other / mixed
Prefer not to say

Diet: Omnivore

Daily rhythm

Sleep schedule

Early bird
Standard schedule
Night owl
Shift / irregular
Flexible
Prefer not to say

Sleep schedule: Standard schedule

Work schedule

Standard 9–5
Hybrid / remote
Shift work
Freelance / variable
Travel-heavy
Prefer not to say

Work schedule: Hybrid / remote

Life context

Faith / spirituality

Not religious
Spiritual, not religious
Christian
Jewish
Muslim
Hindu
Buddhist
Other faith
Prefer not to say

Faith / spirituality: Spiritual, not religious

Education

High school
Some college
Bachelor's
Graduate degree
Professional / trade
Self-taught / other
Prefer not to say

Education: Bachelor's

Connection style

Communication style

Direct
Warm & expressive
Reserved
Playful
Analytical
Prefer not to say

Communication style: Warm & expressive

Dating pace

Slow burn
Steady pace
Intentional & fast
Prefer not to say

Dating pace: Steady pace

What you want

Scroll to set the build range you are open to in a match. Preview updates for the gender you select.

Build

Slim
Lean
Athletic / strong
Average
Curvy
Full-figured
Plus
Open to all builds

Build: Open to all builds

Physical fit

Preferred activity

Mostly sedentary
Light activity
Moderately active
Active
Very active
No preference
Open to all

Preferred activity: No preference

Preferred workouts

Any rhythm
Active+
Very active only
No preference
Open to all

Preferred workouts: Any rhythm

Substance & diet

Preferred smoking

Non-smokers only
Social smoking OK
Occasional OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred smoking: Non-smokers only

Preferred drinking

Non-drinkers only
Social drinking OK
Moderate OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred drinking: Social drinking OK

Preferred cannabis

Non-use only
Occasional OK
Regular OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred cannabis: No preference

Preferred diet

Same or flexible
Vegetarian+
Vegan only
No preference
Open to all

Preferred diet: Same or flexible

Daily rhythm

Preferred sleep rhythm

Similar rhythm
Night owl OK
Early bird OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred sleep rhythm: Similar rhythm

Preferred work schedule

Similar schedule
Remote-friendly
Flexible OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred work schedule: Flexible OK

Preferred pets

Pet-free home
Dog-friendly
Cat-friendly
Any pets OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred pets: Any pets OK

Location & demographics

Match distance

Same city
Metro area
Within 50 mi
Within 100 mi
Long distance OK
Open to relocate

Match distance: Metro area

Life context

Preferred kids timeline

Aligned timeline
No kids wanted
Open to kids
Has kids OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred kids timeline: Aligned timeline

Preferred faith alignment

Same faith
Similar values
Interfaith OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred faith alignment: Similar values

Preferred education

Similar level
College+
No preference
Open to all

Preferred education: No preference

Connection style

Preferred communication

Direct & clear
Warm & expressive
Any style
No preference
Open to all

Preferred communication: Direct & clear

Preferred dating pace

Slow burn
Steady pace
Either pace OK
No preference
Open to all

Preferred dating pace: Steady pace

Profile photo coach

Look like yourself — on your best day

Research-backed lineup: six photos that build trust, not tricks. One filtered photo allowed; verify one unfiltered capture for your Real Photo badge.

Recommended order (6 slots)

  1. Lead headshot — window light#1

    Clear headshot

    Solo, eye contact, natural light, genuine smile. No sunglasses or hats in slot one.

  2. Cowboy shot — honest body context#2

    Full-body or cowboy shot

    Mid-thigh up is enough. Relaxed posture — you're not hiding anything.

  3. Activity — conversation starter#3

    Activity / hobby

    Show something you'd actually do — it starts better conversations.

  4. Social proof — you're obvious#4

    Social proof

    Small group is fine if you're obvious in under one second.

  5. Candid — mid-laugh energy#5

    Candid or dressed-up

    Mid-laugh beats stiff posing. One polished shot shows effort.

  6. Context — pet conversation hook#6

    Context / conversation starter

    Travel, pet, or a place that says something about your life.

Do — reference gallery (all six slots)

Lead headshot — window lightDo

Lead headshot — window light

Slot 1

Cowboy shot — honest body contextDo

Cowboy shot — honest body context

Slot 2

Activity — conversation starterDo

Activity — conversation starter

Slot 3

Social proof — you're obviousDo

Social proof — you're obvious

Slot 4

Candid — mid-laugh energyDo

Candid — mid-laugh energy

Slot 5

Context — pet conversation hookDo

Context — pet conversation hook

Slot 6

Don't — common mistakes

Avoid — bathroom mirrorDon't

Avoid — bathroom mirror

Avoid — sunglasses leadDon't

Avoid — sunglasses lead

Avoid — gym mirror flexDon't

Avoid — gym mirror flex

Avoid — low-angle selfieDon't

Avoid — low-angle selfie

Avoid — guess-who groupDon't

Avoid — guess-who group

Flattering poses (with examples)

  • Do

    Window-light headshot

    Stand facing a window; turn off overhead lights. Soft even light on face.

  • Do

    Cowboy shot, weight on one hip

    Mid-thigh framing; slight angle; shoulders back; hands relaxed.

  • Do

    Candid mid-activity

    Friend snaps bursts while you cook, hike, or laugh — pick natural smile.

  • Do

    Seated café context

    Great full-context option if standing feels awkward.

  • Do

    Tripod timer at eye level

    Step back 6–8 ft; better proportions than arm-length selfie.

Poses to skip (with examples)

  • Don't

    Bathroom mirror selfie

    Reads as low effort; messy context; harsh lighting.

  • Don't

    Sunglasses in photo #1

    Eyes build trust fastest — save shades for later slots.

  • Don't

    Shirtless gym mirror

    Top survey turn-off; use distant gym activity shot instead.

  • Don't

    Chest-up only lineup

    Signals hiding; add one honest body-context photo.

    Fix: add a cowboy shot like this

  • Don't

    Low chin / high phone selfie

    Distorts jaw and proportions; level the camera.

  • Don't

    Large group as lead photo

    They should know which person is you in one second.

Inclusive coaching

Plus-size or broad build

Own one clear body-context photo

Hiding reads as shame. One well-lit, well-fitted shot with tall posture outperforms five cropped close-ups.

  • · Cowboy shot in fitted solid colors
  • · Golden hour outdoor light
  • · Friend at 8 feet with burst mode

Camera-shy

Lead with context, not performance

Activity and candid shots reduce pressure. You don't need to stare down the lens in every frame.

  • · Hobby photo where you're natural
  • · Off-camera smile in slot 3
  • · Short video prompt later

Feels unphotogenic

Fix light before face

Most 'bad photos' are bad lighting. Window light and golden hour change more than angles.

  • · Retake lead at window
  • · Live Photo → pick best frame
  • · Delete weakest photo — don't add filler

Everyone

One filtered photo max

AlignHeart allows one tastefully enhanced photo. Verify one unfiltered capture for your Real Photo badge.

  • · Enhance clarity, not bone structure
  • · Complete verification capture
  • · Refresh photos every 90 days
Coach micro-actions

Full research: docs/research/ALIGNED_CHEMISTRY_PROFILE_PHOTO_RESEARCH_2026.md

3D preview

Heart model (LOD 0)

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From mismatch to strong match

Compatibility intelligence shows how alignment builds — with coach tips at every stage.

Three compatibility states: 28% not aligned, 54% gaining alignment, and 82% strong match

Want your real alignment?

The full assessment covers all six pillars with confidence scores and coach-ready insights.

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